What Relationships Teach Us

The most common questions I encounter from my audiences and community almost always pertain to matters of the heart—whether they’re about current relationships, potential or hopeful future soulmates or bonds with family members or friends.

Relationships are lifelong commitments for many of us, so of course, they are a critical part of our happiness. Each question about love, human attraction, and personal connections is unique in its own way. When looking for an answer, I not only draw on my own experiences in life and love, but I also reach out to the ancient wisdom and guidance of the tarot for direction, clarity and external perspective.

All relationships, whether they’re on an emotional, physical, mental or spiritual level are part of the never-ending learning process and enlightenment of the soul. No matter what category a relationship falls into (and there are many), it becomes a teaching tool. And with every new insight and lesson, your soul learns from these experiences and becomes stronger and richer. A relationship can also help you understand, change or even enhance your own individual qualities.

Every relationship, whether positive or negative, is an opportunity for soul growth. I truly believe there are lessons in each and every relationship you encounter in life. Different types of relationships have an uncanny way of showing you what aspects of yourself you need to work on.

At times, relationships reveal your vulnerabilities and insecurities, for example, or even your need for attention, approval and acceptance. Equally, they can identify where you may be stuck in a rut, or where you need more love, peace, healing or joy in your life. Of course, there are times when a relationship can show you just how strong and confident you are in your own right.